If you want to keep your relationship alive and well, then it is important that you are able to communicate effectively with your partner about what you like sexually, what turns them on and off, and how they feel about certain activities. It can be difficult to talk about these things if you don't have experience talking about them before, so here are some tips for discussing sexual desires without being pushy:
1) Start by asking open-ended questions - What kind of touches do you enjoy? How often would you like to have sex?
2) Use "I" statements instead of "you" statements when describing your own needs and preferences. This way there will be less pressure on them to respond in a specific way. For example, say "I really love it when you kiss my neck", rather than saying "You need to kiss my neck more".
3) Be mindful of their boundaries and comfort level at all times. If something makes them uncomfortable or upset, back off immediately. Don't try to force anything, even if they seem interested initially. You should also avoid pressuring them into doing things they aren't comfortable with.
4) Keep an open dialogue going throughout the year, not just during special occasions. Talk about everything from fantasies to fears to past experiences. Share intimate details about yourself and ask them about themselves as well. The more you know each other, the better equipped you will be to meet each other's needs in bed (and elsewhere).
5) Try new things together! Sex doesn't always have to involve penetration or intercourse; there are plenty of ways to explore pleasure outside of those realms too. Experiment with different positions, toys, lingerie, roleplay, etc. Don't get stuck in one routine - keep things fresh and exciting for both partners involved.
6) Last but certainly not least: don't forget that communication is key! It takes time to get used to talking openly about these topics with your partner, so be patient and understanding with each other as you learn how best to express yourselves sexually without being pushy or rude. Remember that no matter what happens, maintaining healthy boundaries within a relationship should never compromise anyone's safety or comfort level - respect is paramount above all else!