The modern democratic state does not tolerate private lives. Political leaders are subject to intense scrutiny and criticism from journalists and media outlets. This applies even more strongly for female politicians who must navigate gender stereotypes about their personal and professional lives. While male leaders can often rely on "masculine" traits such as strength, decisiveness, and virility to win votes, women must be equally strong but also nurturing and caring. They must present themselves as both feminine and masculine to gain voters' trust.
This poses problems when it comes to sexuality. Sexuality is an integral part of human life, and people cannot separate it entirely from politics. But political leaders must manage this contradiction if they want to maintain public support and credibility. Some have done so successfully, while others have struggled.
Former US President Bill Clinton faced controversy after having an affair with a White House intern, Monica Lewinsky, which some argue damaged his presidency.
Many Americans still respected him despite the scandal. Similarly, current German Chancellor Angela Merkel has never married or had children, but her lack of a family has not diminished her popularity.
Former Indian Prime Minister Indira Gandhi was widely criticized for having an alleged love affair with her bodyguard. It became known as the "love story that shook India," and she lost re-election shortly afterwards. In Latin America, several female presidents have been attacked for being too intimate or involved in extramarital affairs.
The problem is that sexism and double standards persist in politics. People expect men to act like "macho" leaders who are capable of making tough decisions, while they demand that women be more demure and ladylike. This creates an impossible situation where political leaders must balance their private lives with their public image and career ambitions. As societies become increasingly open about sex and relationships, it becomes harder for them to hide these aspects of their lives. They may choose to remain single or celibate to avoid scrutiny, but this can lead to accusations of coldness or unapproachability.
The myth of the ascetic, superhuman leader cannot sustain itself in a society where sexuality is public knowledge. Political leaders must be human and approachable if they want to succeed. They must find ways to manage their personal lives without compromising their professional duties. The key will lie in balancing transparency and privacy and building trust with voters through authenticity and honesty.
Is the myth of the ascetic, “superhuman” political leader sustainable in a society where sexuality is public knowledge?
The myth of the ascetic, "superhuman" political leader has been prevalent throughout human history. This stereotype often portrays politicians as uncompromising figures who lead with authority and have an impressive control over their personal lives.