There is something about certain smells that can transport you back to your childhood or a favorite memory, bring out feelings of nostalgia, or even make you feel more confident. But for many people,...
The act of consciously controlling one's breathing during sexual encounters has been used for centuries as a means of enhancing pleasure and connection between partners. In recent years, this...
Some people have one object that they use across scenes to help them remember where they are in their dynamic, and how to get back there when they need to.
A person might wear a certain piece of...
There is a rich tradition of using props in BDSM play to add weight and significance to scenes that might otherwise lack an element of gravity. While many people associate props with historical...
Collaborative scenes are exciting because they involve two people creating something together, blending their imaginations and ideas to bring a fantasy to life. In these erotic situations, partners...
Breath awareness is part of consent partners may negotiate breath patterns slow, deep, controlled vs fast, limited. If you are an experienced yoga practitioner or meditator, you have probably heard...
1. Why does watching yourself tie up or perform in bondage in front of a mirror amplify self-reflection?
Mirror scenes are an integral part of BDSM play, where one partner assumes control over...
There are many benefits to incorporating sound into your BDSM scene, such as enhancing pleasure and creating a more immersive experience.
When working with a Dominant partner who is blindfolding...
Practice Doesn't Make Perfect, Closeness Does
Repeating similar sex acts may feel safe, but it isn't necessarily good for the relationship. By contrast, new things that build connection are...
Everyday Life Can Be a Power Exchange
Some submissives choose to wear collars, use certain postures, or call their Dominant throughout daily life—outside of scenes. This is called "everyday" D/s,...