How do people internalize societal expectations about sexual roles, and how does this shape long-term self-image?
Consider the concept of sexual role. In general, there are many different types of sexual role, including but not limited to heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, transgender, nonbinary, asexual, monogamous, polyamorous, consensual, predatory, abusive, masochistic, sadistic, and more. It is important to note that these roles can be fluid and changeable throughout an individual's life, based on various factors such as biological sex, gender identity, relationship status, and personal experiences.
Let us turn to the process of internalizing societal expectations about sexual roles. Often, individuals learn about what is considered acceptable behavior for their particular sexual role from parents, peers, media, and other cultural influences.
Boys may be taught that they should be assertive and masculine, while girls may be taught to be submissive and feminine. These messages can be implicit or explicit, direct or indirect, positive or negative. As a result, people may develop ideas about themselves and others that reinforce these expectations.
Let us explore how this internalization shapes long-term self-image.
People may come to see themselves through the lens of these societal norms, leading to a sense of self-esteem based on their ability to conform to those norms. This can lead to feelings of inadequacy or shame if one fails to live up to them, or a sense of superiority or pride if one meets or exceeds them. It can also affect intimate relationships, with partners evaluating each other based on whether they meet these expectations.
It is also possible to challenge these norms and explore alternative ways of being sexual. By doing so, individuals may find greater freedom and fulfillment in their lives, and contribute to changing social attitudes towards sexuality.
Understanding how people internalize societal expectations about sexual roles is crucial for recognizing how they shape long-term self-image, as well as for promoting more inclusive and equitable approaches to sex, sexuality, and relationships.
How do people internalize societal expectations about sexual roles, and how does this shape long-term self-image?
Researchers have argued that gender roles are largely socially constructed and influenced by cultural norms and expectations (e. g. , Gagnon & Simon 1973; Diamond & Sigmundson 2006). Individuals learn and internalize such role models through socialization processes, including family, school, media, peers, and other institutional settings (Rice & Harris 2015).