Your libido is not a measure of worth
High, low, changing, gone—it's not your identity
You are whole whether you're turned on or not
Libido refers to an individual's desire for sexual activity. It can fluctuate over time, depending on various factors such as hormones, stress levels, health conditions, and emotional states. Some individuals may have high libidos that constantly seek out new sexual experiences, while others may have low libidos that limit their interest in sexual activities.
It does not determine one's overall value or self-worth.
Individuals who experience low libidos should not feel shameful or less than others because they do not crave sex all the time. Instead, they should focus on understanding their bodies and needs without feeling pressured to engage in any type of sexual activity. This way, they can learn how to manage their desires effectively without guilt or judgement.
Having a high libido does not mean that someone has more value than those with lower libidos. Neither does it imply a lack of self-control or discipline. Everyone deserves respect regardless of their level of sexual appetite. No matter what a person chooses to pursue in terms of relationships and intimacy, it does not define them as good or bad people.
Everyone experiences changes in their libidos at different times in life.
Some people's libidos peak during their youth and decline as they age, while others find themselves more interested in sex later in life. These shifts are normal and natural parts of our lives, and they do not make anyone better or worse than anyone else.
No one should base their identity on their libido or use it as a measure of worth. Each individual is unique and valuable, and it is essential to appreciate them for who they are rather than what they do sexually. Libidos fluctuate, but individuals remain whole regardless.
We must prioritize accepting and valuing each other beyond our sexual preferences or capabilities. We need to recognize that everyone deserves love, affection, and connection, even if they choose not to engage in sexual activities. By doing so, we create an inclusive environment where everyone feels seen, heard, and supported.