Initiation goes both ways in romantic or sexual relationships. When one person takes the lead, it sets an expectation that they are the leader or more experienced partner.
This dynamic can create...
Confidence is an attitude that you can have towards yourself and others. It involves having trust and faith in your abilities, qualities, strengths, and beliefs. When it comes to bedroom activities,...
Being Seen Is More Intimate Than Being Touched:
Real intimacy is not just about physical touch but also involves emotional connection. Physical intimacy can make you feel closer to someone, but...
Turn-on starts outside the bedroom
Eroticism doesn't begin with lingerie—it starts with life.
Eroticism isn't just about what happens between the sheets. It begins before you even enter the...
Men Feel Pressure Too
Male sexuality is often portrayed as simple, It's not, Men feel pressure to always want, always perform, always satisfy, They deserve safe, shame-free, emotionally rich sex...
What is emotional safety?
Emotional safety means feeling safe to be vulnerable without fear of judgment or rejection. In a relationship, this includes being able to trust your partner's intentions...
What are "flashbacks"
Trauma survivors may experience emotional "flashbacks," which can be triggered by specific situations or stimuli. These moments can feel like they're happening all over...
Practice Doesn't Make Perfect, Closeness Does
Repeating similar sex acts may feel safe, but it isn't necessarily good for the relationship. By contrast, new things that build connection are...
In the world of BDSM, many people believe that incorporating safety into their scenes can take away from the fantasy element of the experience.
This is far from the truth. Using safewords and...
Energy play refers to a type of BDSM activity involving the manipulation of energy between partners. Unlike traditional BDSM activities such as bondage, spanking, or flogging, energy play focuses on...