Integrating Kink and Family Life Is Possible
For some couples, kink is an exciting part of their lives that they want to share with their partner and children.
For others, it can be a secret...
Group scenes require extra structure to manage multiple partners. Rotation of consent, timing, risk assessment, and shared responsibility are important considerations. Coordination must be maintained...
Review and reflection are important aspects of any practice, including kink play. This process involves analyzing past experiences to identify strengths, weaknesses, and areas for improvement, then...
Ethics Shift With Context
What's considered ethical in private play can differ from public settings or professional scenes. Each environmentdungeon, sex club, home, or virtualhas its own...
Kink education never ends
Even advanced players keep learning
There are always new techniques, emotional tools, or ways to deepen intimacy
Arrogance or complacency can lead to unsafe or...
Online Communities Offer Safety and Support
Sites like FetLife, Reddit's /r/BDSMcommunity, or Discord servers give access to advice, connection, and education. Newbies often learn essential safety...
Public Kink Etiquette Is a Thing
In public or semi-public kink-friendly spaces (like clubs or play parties), etiquette is vital, and there are unwritten rules you need to follow to be welcomed...
BDSM is an acronym for bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism and masochism. It involves physical restraint, punishment, and humiliation, often for sexual pleasure. Gender refers...
Pet Play Taps Into Identity Play
Pet play is a form of BDSM where one partner takes on the role of an animal – like a puppy, kitten, pony, or bunny – while the dominant acts as their handler or...
As a social species, humans have always had a tendency towards exhibitionism. People love to put themselves out there and show off their skills, talents, or physical assets.
When it comes to sex,...