It is generally believed that the phrase "topping from the bottom" refers to an act whereby a person who is in the submissive position during a scene attempts to assert power and dominance over their...
Fantasies evolve over time as people gain experience and experimentation
As an individual grows older, their preferences and fantasies will naturally evolve over time. This is because as they...
Dirty Words Can Be Triggers Or Tools
Calling someone a “slut,” “toy,” or “daddy” can feel erotic to some and triggering to others. Language in kink must be mutually agreed upon. Many partners use...
Long-term BDSM relationships require ongoing consent because they involve power dynamics that can shift over time. Partners in these relationships need to continually check in and renegotiate their...
Brats are submissives who test, tease, or disobey their Dominants in a playful manner, but this does not necessarily mean they are being disrespectful. This behavior is part of a game that both...
1. As a dominant, it's important to understand your own needs and boundaries when it comes to aftercare. Just because you might not show it doesn't mean you don't feel it. Aftercare is crucial for...
SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual) and RACK (Risk-Aware Consensual Kink) are two commonly followed philosophies in the world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance/submission, sadism, masochism) and...
Total Power Exchange (TPE) is an all-encompassing and enduring power exchange relationship between two partners. It involves the surrender of total authority by one partner to another, while both...
Erotic Hypnosis is a Real Kink
Hypno-kink uses guided suggestions to relax, arouse, or induce submission.
Erotic hypnosis scenes can include trigger words, post-hypnotic suggestions, or fantasy...
One of the most common things I hear from newbies in kinky play is that they feel like their brains are about to explode. They may have heard the term "sensory overload" before but don't know what it...