Total Power Exchange (TPE) is an all-encompassing and enduring power exchange relationship between two partners. It involves the surrender of total authority by one partner to another, while both agree that they will take part in any activity their dominant wishes.
Unlike a scene, which refers to the momentary transfer of power during a specific encounter between consenting adults, TPE can be perpetuated outside the context of BDSM scenes. For instance, a submissive may consent to follow every order from their dominant for the rest of their life, including household chores, making choices for them, going to work, and even deciding what to eat or wear daily. In some cases, it might also include abstaining from using the internet or having friends without prior approval.
TPE requires full trust between the participants, as well as consistent communication and negotiation on each other's needs and boundaries before, after, and during the relationship. Additionally, it necessitates careful planning and consideration before establishing such dynamic because there are few ways out once entered into this type of relationship. That is why many people who practice TPE may have been together for several years before taking things to the next level.
On the other hand, a scene typically ends with the conclusion of an erotic encounter but does not involve any long-term submission or control. It usually occurs within a safe, sane, consensual, and private environment where both parties understand and respect the limits established previously. The scene might involve elements like bondage, spanking, whipping, or humiliation but is limited in time.
Furthermore, the scene may last only minutes or hours, depending on how much the participants want to explore their fantasies, while TPE is ongoing, 24/7. However, both types of relationships require mutual consent, trust, and safety measures to ensure everyone's pleasure.
In summary, Total Power Exchange is a complete power exchange that exists outside sexual scenes while requiring constant attention and dedication from partners, while Scenes refer to temporary transfer of power and control during sexually explicit acts. Both options should be practiced by mature and responsible individuals interested in BDSM.