What is gendered aesthetics?
Gendered aesthetics refer to the way that societies expect individuals to present themselves based on their assigned gender at birth. This includes clothing styles, hairstyles, makeup, grooming practices, and body language. In heterosexual cisgender populations, these aesthetic norms are usually defined as feminine for women and masculine for men.
People who do not conform to these norms may face social consequences such as being labeled "weird," "ugly," or even "abnormal."
How does this affect self-esteem?
People who identify as LGBTQ+ often experience pressure to conform to traditional gender roles and aesthetics. This can lead to feelings of shame and inadequacy when they don't meet those standards.
Trans individuals may be pressured to wear clothing associated with their assigned gender at birth rather than the gender they identify with. Nonbinary individuals may be told they need to choose between male and female aesthetics. These pressures can cause significant mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem.
Are there specific psychological mechanisms involved?
Several psychological mechanisms have been identified in studies of gender dysphoria and related conditions. One common mechanism is social comparison, where individuals compare themselves to others and find fault in how they look or act. Another is internalization of negative messages about nonconformity, which leads them to believe they are wrong or bad for not meeting societal standards.
Cognitive dissonance may occur when individuals hold conflicting beliefs about gender roles and their own identity. All of these factors contribute to poor self-esteem and other mental health problems.
Can society change its expectations?
There is some evidence that attitudes toward LGBTQ+ populations are becoming more accepting over time.
Many people still hold stereotypical views of what it means to be masculine or feminine, and these views can create barriers for anyone who doesn't fit into those boxes. Changing societal norms would require education and awareness-building efforts aimed at challenging rigid gender roles and promoting diversity. Individuals can also work on building their own confidence and self-acceptance by seeking support from friends, family members, and mental health professionals who understand their experiences.
What are the psychological mechanisms through which societal pressures to conform to gendered aesthetics affect self-esteem in LGBTQ+ populations?
The pressures to conform to society's gendered expectations of beauty can be emotionally taxing for all people, including those who identify as LGBTQ+. The pressure to adhere to certain standards of attractiveness and presentation that may not align with one's authentic identity can lead to feelings of inadequacy, shame, and internalized homophobia.