The concept of individual identity is defined as a unique set of beliefs, values, traits, behaviors, attitudes, interests, abilities, goals, aspirations, etc., that distinguish an individual from others. It encompasses the perceptions of one's self as an autonomous being with agency over their thoughts, feelings, actions, and experiences.
Social expectations are external pressures derived from cultural norms, family values, societal conventions, peer group influences, and media representations. They can be implicit or explicit, conscious or unconscious, personalized or universal, temporary or permanent, voluntary or involuntary. Socialization processes shape individuals' identities through interaction with others, reinforcing certain behavioral patterns and discouraging others, rewarding compliance and punishing non-conformity. This dynamic creates internal conflicts between personal identity and societal expectations, which affect psychological well-being and interpersonal relationships. Individuals may experience cognitive dissonance, leading to anxiety, depression, guilt, shame, self-doubt, and self-criticism.
People who identify themselves as LGBTQIA+ often face rejection from family members due to traditional gender roles and sexual morality. They may feel isolated, rejected, insecure, and unsure about their sexual orientation/identity. Thus, they must negotiate conflicting aspects of their identity, like hiding their true selves to avoid judgment or risking ostracization for expressing their authenticity. The conflict also manifests in interpersonal interactions. People may struggle to communicate openly about their sexual desires and preferences, fearing criticism, dismissal, or ridicule. It can lead to difficulties building trust, intimacy, and commitment. As a result, individuals may develop distrust, defensiveness, and emotional distance towards others. To manage this conflict, individuals must recognize their autonomy and individuality, validate their unique perspectives, set boundaries, seek support, challenge social norms, and advocate for change.