Queer migration is an increasingly prevalent phenomenon where individuals who identify with non-heterosexual orientations or gender identities leave their countries of origin to seek a better life abroad. This includes immigrating for education, work, or family reasons.
These queer migrants often face difficulties in balancing cultural preservation and self-expression due to societal expectations about gender roles and sexual behavior in both their country of origin and destination. In this article, I will explore how queer migrants navigate this tension between culture and identity through personal narratives, academic research, and case studies.
Personal Narrative
One way that queer migrants can reconcile the tension between cultural preservation and self-expression is through exploring and embracing their own identities. Queer migrants may feel pressure from friends and family members to conform to traditional gender roles or sexual behaviors, but they must recognize that they do not have to adhere to those norms. This could mean finding queer communities within their new environment, engaging in activities that reflect their true selves, or simply accepting themselves as unique individuals.
Muna*, a queer Syrian woman living in Canada, explains: "I've been able to find other LGBTQ+ people like me and attend events that celebrate our differences."
Academic Research
According to academic research, queer migrants also face challenges in expressing their identity because of structural factors such as legal frameworks and social attitudes towards homosexuality. Some countries still criminalize same-sex relationships, while others lack laws protecting LGBTQ+ rights. These laws and stigmas can lead to discrimination, violence, and even death. Therefore, queer migrants often conceal their identities when necessary to avoid these risks.
Some argue that hiding one's identity comes at a cost, leading to increased stress and anxiety. Therefore, queer migrants need support systems to help them navigate this balance between safety and authenticity.
Case Study
Case studies demonstrate how queer migrants can successfully reconcile cultural preservation and self-expression. One example is Zander*, who moved to the United States from India with his partner. They maintained many aspects of their Indian culture by cooking traditional foods, practicing religious rituals, and connecting with family members back home. Still, they also embraced their own sexuality through public displays of affection, joining LGBTQ+ groups, and advocating for equality. As Zander says, "You don't have to sacrifice your culture or identity - you just have to be true to yourself and be proud of it."
How do queer migrants reconcile the tension between cultural preservation and self-expression?
During the migration process, people are forced to adapt to new environments that may differ from their origin cultures. This adaptation can lead to feelings of identity crisis as they try to maintain their original values while embracing the norms of the receiving culture. Queer migrants experience this dilemma on two levels - maintaining their sexual orientation and gender expression is an essential part of their personal identity while also experiencing discrimination based on these traits.