Jealousy is an emotional response to real or perceived threats to one's relationship status, including romantic partners, friendships, and family dynamics. Jealousy has been studied extensively in psychology, sociology, and anthropology, but little research exists on how it functions in polyamorous relationships. This paper will compare and contrast the ways that monogamy and non-monogamy affect jealousy.
Monogamy involves being committed exclusively to a single partner, whereas non-monogamy includes multiple simultaneous sexual and/or romantic relationships. In monogamous relationships, jealousy often occurs when a person fears losing their partner to another individual. The partner may engage in flirting or cheating, which can trigger feelings of betrayal, distrust, anger, or sadness.
Some research suggests that monogamous individuals are more likely to experience jealousy than those in open relationships.
In non-monogamous relationships, jealousy may arise due to differences in levels of commitment, communication styles, and relationship boundaries.
A primary partner may become jealous if they feel that their secondary partner is prioritizing someone else over them. Similarly, a secondary partner may feel threatened by another partner entering the picture. Non-monogamous individuals may also experience "compersion," wherein they feel happy for their partner's happiness with someone else.
The frequency and intensity of jealousy can depend on various factors such as personal history, attachment style, and relationship structure. Monogamous couples may find it difficult to negotiate jealousy because traditional social norms emphasize fidelity above all else. Open relationships require clear communication and boundary setting to prevent misunderstandings and hurt feelings.
Jealousy is not necessarily negative but can indicate a need for attention or validation from one's partner. It can be addressed through therapy, communication, and understanding one's own triggers.
Each relationship dynamic requires its own unique approach to dealing with jealousy.
How does jealousy function differently in monogamous versus non-monogamous adults?
Jealousy is a complex emotion that can manifest itself in different ways depending on the context. In monogamous relationships, jealousy may be triggered by a perceived threat of infidelity or betrayal, while in non-monogamous relationships, it may arise from feelings of competition for affection or attention between partners.