Erotic Spontaneity versus Erotic Structure
What do I mean by erotic spontaneity? To begin with, we need to clarify that there are different types of erotica: spontaneous and structured....
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: Erotic spontaneity vs structured eroticism: which approach suits you best?
The question "What do I want to hear after sex" is often asked by people who have had satisfying physical relations but may not know what they want in terms of emotional closeness afterwards. People...
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: How to discuss your sexual needs with a partner after intimate encounters
What kind of sexual silence feels nourishing?
Sexual intimacy is an important aspect of any relationship, whether it be platonic or romantic. It can help to foster feelings of closeness and...
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: How emotional sexual silence can feel nourishing in your relationship
What Part Of Your Body Do You Feel Safest In During Sex? Least Safe?
Sex is an incredibly personal experience that involves various emotions, behaviors, and physical sensations. While some...
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: Exploring your body for safety and pleasure: what parts make you feel most comfortable?
Coming Home to Your Body
Coming home to one's body is an essential aspect of any sexual moment. It involves focusing on the sensations that occur within the body during a sexual encounter, which...
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: How to come home to your body during sex: a guide to mindfulness, breathwork, and movement for deeper intimacy
Do you find yourself getting lost in thoughts about sex even when you're not having it? Are you constantly thinking about what would happen if you were to have sex with someone new? If so, you may be...
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: The science behind erotic anticipation: how it feels and how to manage its intensity
Sex is an important aspect of human life that has always been shrouded in mystery and stigma. In the past, sex was considered taboo, and people were ashamed to talk about it openly. However, society...
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: Should you approach sex as something to achieve or something to explore?
How do you explore the unknown in sex - do you chase it or avoid it?
When it comes to sex, some people are naturally drawn towards exploring new and exciting experiences while others prefer to...
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: Exploring sexual unknown: overcoming anxiety & pushing boundaries
What is the erotic potential of your voice? Do you use it?
When you speak to someone, are you aware that there is an erotic element to your voice? If so, how do you utilize this power to create...
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: Unlocking the erotic potential of your voice: exploring ways to use it for intimacy and desire.
You may have heard that "sex is natural" or "your body knows what it wants." However, these statements are incomplete and do not consider the many factors that can affect sexual pleasure and...
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: How to turn your body into an ally in sexual expression rather than a battleground