Relationships can be full of surprises, but sometimes those surprises may come from within ourselves rather than from our partners. We all have unique desires, needs, wants, and dreams when it comes...
Safety Tips for Exploring Sensory Stimulation and Pain Play
When exploring sensory stimulation and pain play during partnered BDSM activities, safety is paramount. Both partners must feel...
The term "masochism" is used to describe a person who takes pleasure in experiencing pain during sexual activities, either alone or with a partner. It can involve physical or psychological suffering...
Some people derive sexual pleasure from experiencing physical or emotional pain during sex, a phenomenon known as masochism. While this may seem counterintuitive, it can be a normal and healthy part...
Arousal is an emotional state marked by increased interest or excitement. It's a normal response to stimuli that could lead to pleasure or satisfaction. Pain is a physical experience associated with...
Pain is often associated with negative experiences in life, such as physical or emotional trauma, illness, or injury.
For some people, experiencing pain can also be an enjoyable part of their...
Some Use "Check-In Codes" Mid-Play
A simple phrase—"Routine?"—may serve as a consent question, Answering "Yes, Ma'am" affirms flow, If discomfort arises, "Routine?" becomes a safe word trigger,...
Not All Pain Is Erotic People often confuse painful experiences with pleasurable kinds—but not all pain feels good, understanding your threshold, body sensitivity, and emotional response is essential...
Pain is typically viewed as an unpleasant experience that people try to avoid, but for some individuals, it can be seen as a language of love. Impact play, needle play, or flogging are all ways to...
The practice of dripping hot wax onto a person's body is an exciting and often unexplored activity within BDSM communities that has its own unique set of risks. When executed correctly, this type of...