Do you believe eroticism can exist in silence? Stillness? Slowness? Can an intimate moment between two lovers be expressed without any physical contact? Is it possible to convey desire through subtle...
What stories about "good" or "bad" sex still live inside you?
Imagine yourself at age 12 in your bedroom, playing with dolls. Your friends are outside playing soccer. You hear footsteps...
What's the Difference Between Feeling Used and Feeling Desired?
When it comes to relationships, people often talk about "feeling used" or "feeling desired." But what exactly is the difference...
What Part of Your Sexual Story Still Feels Unresolved?
Have you ever thought about why some aspects of your sexual history are more challenging to talk about than others? For example, maybe it's...
Sexual Generosity vs Self-Abandonment
The concept of sexual generosity has become increasingly popular, particularly among individuals who identify as polyamorous or non-monogamous. However, some...
Can Boundaries Be Erotic? How?
A boundary is a limit that an individual sets for themselves to protect their physical, emotional, or mental wellbeing. It can also refer to a line drawn between...
Today I will be writing an article about how people can experience intimacy through different ways such as words, touch, or presence. Intimacy is defined as "a close emotional bond shared between...
Erotic surrender is when one partner submits to another's sexual desires without reservation. It involves letting go of control and trusting the other person entirely. Emotional dependence is a...
The question of whether it is easier to love or to be loved sexually can be a controversial one, but ultimately it depends on individual experiences and preferences. Some people may feel that loving...
What's the Role of Silence, Breath, and Stillness in Erotic Presence?
Silence, breath, and stillness are important components of erotic presence, allowing individuals to connect with their partner...