Breath Control Play, also known as Breath Fetish, is an act where one partner controls the breathing of another for sexual pleasure. It is often performed during BDSM activities but can also be...
Read More
: Controlling your partners breath for erotic pleasure: how breath control play works and its benefits/risks explained
Group Retreats Build Emotional Safety
Weekends away at kink retreats allow deeper training, rituals, and aftercare bonding across communities, Emotional and physical risk is mitigated via...
Read More
: What kink retreats can teach you about emotional safety and deepening your relationship
Public scenes require access conscious consent when play occurs in partly public spaces
If you want to have a scene at a crowded coffee shop or a popular park, you might think that's fine. It can...
Read More
: Enjoy public scenes safely: tips for inclusive, consensual, safe bdsm play
Play can involve routine chores. In a service submissive relationship, it may be part of the agreement to do household tasks such as cleaning, laundry, cooking, and gardening. Some examples of this...
Read More
: Chore service in bdsm relationships: exploring dominance, submission, and ritualized routines
Ownership Fetish Doesn't Mean Actual Control Owning someone in a BDSM fantasy doesn't equate to actual control; it is a metaphor for trust, vulnerability, and belonging. To be owned means being...
Read More
: Owning someone in a bdsm fantasy: exploring trust, vulnerability and belonging
Kink and mental health are often seen as opposites, but they don't have to be. While some may find the idea of being tied up or spanked exciting, others might view it as dangerous or immoral.
For...
Read More
: Understanding the benefits of bdsm for mental health: how kink can help manage depression, anxiety, and trauma
Chastity Devices Are About Control, Not Deprivation
Despite their appearance, chastity devices are about power rather than restriction. These devices don't prevent pleasure, but they do require...
Read More
: Chastity devices arent just restrictive theyre powerful tools for dominance & submission.
Dominance And Submission In BDSM
BDSM stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. These are activities that people engage in voluntarily, often within a...
Read More
: The psychology of dominance and submission in bdsm relationships
Absence of Extreme Fetish Content, Cheri Deliberately Avoided Extreme or Controversial Fetish Content
Cheri was an adult entertainment website launched in 2019, but quickly gained popularity...
Read More
: How cheri avoided extreme fetishes and won over international markets
Normalized Post-Scene Aftercare, Some spreads showed the tenderness after rough play—cuddling, soothing, or bandaging—demonstrating how kink includes care.
The process of normalizing post-scene...
Read More
: Maximizing kinky intimacy: exploring postscene aftercare strategies