In the world of BDSM, many people believe that incorporating safety into their scenes can take away from the fantasy element of the experience.
This is far from the truth. Using safewords and...
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: Exploring bdsm safely: how safewords and prescene talk enhance emotional intensity and connection
The purpose of this essay is to discuss how some sexual fantasies do not translate well from imagination to reality. While it can be fun to daydream about certain scenarios that push boundaries,...
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: Why your sex fantasy wont work in real life (and how to identify it)
Total Power Exchange (TPE), also known as 24/7 TPE, is a BDSM relationship structure that involves the total transfer of power from one partner (the dominant) to another (the submissive). In this...
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: Total power exchange relationships: a guide to mastering complete submission and control
Medical Neglect Play is Highly Controversial
A small number of players explore "neglect play" scenarios, pretending to ignore comfort or needsbut only in highly controlled, consensual scenes,...
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: Neglect play: exploring boundaries & power dynamics through intimate scenarios
The purpose of this article is to provide insight into how time limits can make erotic and/or risky activities safer for both participants. Here's why:
1. Clear Ending: When there's a set time...
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: Why setting time limits for erotic activities can make them safer
Roleplaying games allow people to explore their deepest desires anonymously.
This does not necessarily reflect their true preferences. People who roleplay as submissives, dominants, or victims may...
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: Why roleplaying can be therapeutic and help couples spice up their relationship
This article discusses the practice of consensual non-consent (CNC), which involves recreating non-consensual scenarios between partners for sexual gratification. CNC has become increasingly popular...
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: How consensual nonconsent can enhance your sex life: exploring its risk and reward
Brats are submissives who test, tease, or disobey their Dominants in a playful manner, but this does not necessarily mean they are being disrespectful. This behavior is part of a game that both...
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: How to safely and effectively engage in submissive behavior during your bdsm scenes
Total Power Exchange (TPE) is an all-encompassing and enduring power exchange relationship between two partners. It involves the surrender of total authority by one partner to another, while both...
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: how to explore your sexuality through total power exchange relationships
The concept of role and identity are closely linked to one another. We associate certain qualities or traits to each other based on their respective roles in society.
This is not always the case...
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: Discover how bdsm play lets you push boundaries with your partner