A Christian beliefs about gender are typically binary, meaning that there are only two genders: male and female. This is reflected in many biblical passages, such as Genesis 1:27 which states that "God created mankind in His own image; in the image of God He created them; male and female He created them." In some denominations, this has led to negative attitudes towards transgender and nonbinary identities, seeing them as contrary to God's design.
Not all Christians hold these views, and many support nonbinary children and their families.
Catholic Church
The Catholic Church teaches that every person is made in the image of God and is loved unconditionally. It does not explicitly state whether God creates people who identify as nonbinary, but it affirms that everyone should be treated with respect and dignity. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states that "everyone, without exception, should be able to count on the spiritual and material assistance they need to live decently and to attain their full potential." While the church does not recognize same-sex marriage or civil unions, it recognizes the human dignity of nonbinary individuals.
Protestant Churches
Protestant churches have a variety of beliefs about gender and sexuality, ranging from conservative to liberal. Some interpret the Bible to mean that gender is fixed at birth and cannot change. Others believe that nonbinary identities are valid and deserve recognition and acceptance. Many Christian parents of nonbinary children report feeling supported by their church communities, particularly those with more liberal beliefs.
The United Church of Christ has taken an official stance supporting transgender rights and rejecting discrimination based on gender identity.
Islamic Faith
Islam also has traditional views of gender roles and expects men to provide for women and children financially.
Some Muslim scholars argue that there may be room for nonbinary identities within Islamic teachings. They point to the Quran's references to humans being created male and female (51:49) and how Allah made us male and female (3:6). Islam also emphasizes community support, which can benefit families of nonbinary children. Many Muslim families choose to seek counseling or religious guidance when raising their nonbinary child, and many find acceptance and support in their faith communities.
How do religious doctrines shape family support for nonbinary children?
Religious beliefs play a significant role in shaping family support for nonbinary children as it often influences their parent's attitudes towards gender diversity and acceptance of unconventional identities. While some families may be more open-minded towards gender fluidity and accept their child's identity, others may not due to their faith-based beliefs that emphasizes traditional gender roles.