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THE STRUGGLE OF HIDING IDENTITY WHILE SERVING IN THE MILITARY: A LOOK AT DONT ASK, DONT TELL

2 min read Lesbian

There has been an increase in reports of LGBTQ+ individuals serving in the military while also concealing their identity due to fears of discrimination, harassment, or discharge. This phenomenon is known as "don't ask, don't tell." It can have serious psychological consequences for those who must live a double life and deal with both the stress of combat and the stigma of being open about their sexual orientation or gender identity.

One common effect of this dual role is mental health issues such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Soldiers may feel isolated from their peers, struggling with feelings of shame and guilt that they cannot share their true selves. They may also experience higher levels of stress, which can lead to insomnia, irritability, and difficulty concentrating. Some may even turn to drugs or alcohol as coping mechanisms.

Another impact is relationship difficulties. Soldiers may struggle to form close bonds with other soldiers or civilians due to concerns about revealing their identities. They may be afraid to date or form relationships out of fear of exposure. This can lead to loneliness, isolation, and difficulty forming supportive networks.

Sexual minorities may face unique challenges when it comes to navigating sex and intimacy. They may feel pressure to conform to heteronormative expectations and engage in behaviors that go against their authentic desires. They may also experience internalized homophobia, feeling ashamed of their own desires and seeking validation outside of themselves.

Despite these challenges, some research suggests that LGBTQ+ individuals may benefit from serving in the military while keeping their identity secret.

They may have more opportunities for leadership and advancement without facing discrimination based on their sexuality or gender identity.

This benefit often comes at a cost of emotional and psychological distress.

There are many psychological effects associated with being both a soldier and a concealed sexual minority. It's important to provide support and resources for those who serve in this dual role to help them cope with these challenges.

What psychological effects arise from simultaneously performing the roles of soldier and concealed sexual minority?

Many factors come into play when examining the psychological effects that can result from being both a soldier and a member of a concealed sexual minority group. Firstly, soldiers are often exposed to traumatic experiences such as combat and witnessing death, which can trigger post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) or other mental health issues. Additionally, they may face discrimination and stigma due to their sexual orientation or gender identity within the military setting.

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