Queer believers are individuals who identify with their gender, sexual orientation, or both differently from social norms and expectations. They may be called LGBTQIA+. Many religions have traditional views on what is acceptable and expected regarding sex, sexuality, marriage, and relationships. Some religious groups even condemn and exclude queer people for being who they are. This can make it challenging for them to find places where they feel welcomed and loved.
Some queer believers still experience divine intimacy in communities that marginalize them.
One way this happens is through spiritual practices that emphasize love, compassion, and acceptance.
Some Christians practice contemplative prayer, which involves meditating on God's presence and lovingkindness. Queer believers might focus on God's unconditional love for all, including themselves. They could also engage in charitable acts as an expression of faith and community building. By serving others and seeing their humanity, they may connect more deeply with God and each other.
Another way is through rituals and traditions that celebrate diversity.
Some Buddhist ceremonies involve chanting and meditation while honoring various deities. Queer believers might participate in such ceremonies to honor different aspects of their identity. They could also create new rituals that affirm queer identities within a traditionally heteronormative framework. Such rituals could include singing songs or telling stories about queer saints and heroes.
Queer believers often form affinity spaces where they can share experiences without fear of judgment. These safe spaces can be physical gatherings or online groups. In these spaces, individuals can speak openly about their struggles and joys. They can also explore the intersection between their sexual orientation and spirituality.
LGBTQIA+ Muslims meet regularly to discuss Islamic teachings regarding gender and sexuality. This helps them understand how their beliefs fit into a larger context.
Queer believers can experience divine intimacy despite marginalization by practicing self-love, participating in inclusive religious practices, and forming affinity spaces. While many religions have challenged queer people, they still find ways to express their faith and build community.
How do queer believers experience divine intimacy in communities that marginalize them?
Queer believers often feel excluded from their religious communities due to their sexual orientation or gender identity, which can lead to feelings of isolation and a sense of disconnection from God. This can make it difficult for them to access spiritual support, guidance, and community, as well as experience divine intimacy in ways that are meaningful and affirming.