Heteronormativity is the assumption that everyone is heterosexual and cisgender. It means people who do not fit this norm may face discrimination and stigma due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. Bisexual people may experience difficulty coming out because of biphobia, which refers to prejudice against those attracted to more than one gender. They may feel ashamed or confused about their identity. This can lead to mental health issues like anxiety, depression, and substance abuse. They may also hide their bisexuality in social, academic, and professional environments for fear of rejection or discrimination.
Cognitive Impacts
Concealing bisexual identity can cause cognitive dissonance, where a person's beliefs conflict with their behavior. It can make them question their authenticity and lead to self-doubt. Bisexuals may try to justify their behavior to themselves or others, creating internal conflicts. They may have difficulty expressing true feelings or understanding others. They may avoid situations where they cannot conceal their bisexuality or feel pressured into monogamy. This can affect decision making, communication, and relationships. Hiding can cause distress, low self-esteem, and confusion.
Emotional Impacts
Concealing bisexuality can cause emotional trauma, including isolation, loneliness, stress, and shame. It can interfere with intimacy by preventing openness and honesty. It may cause embarrassment and fear of being found out. Some bisexuals feel rejected or unworthy, leading to self-hatred and self-destructive behaviors. They may fear judgment, ridicule, or violence from society or loved ones. They may feel pressure to suppress desires and needs, leading to resentment and anger. Concealing can impact self-acceptance and confidence, leading to depression, anxiety, and low self-esteem.
Professional Impacts
Hiding bisexuality in professional environments can harm career development and earning potential. Many people hide for fear of discrimination, which is illegal under the Civil Rights Act but still exists. They may feel forced into monogamous relationships, compromising their sexual identity. This can impact workplace productivity and mental health. Bisexuals may struggle to find employment due to biphobia. Even if employed, they may be overlooked for promotions or dismissed due to stereotypes about bisexuality. Some bisexuals must conceal themselves within their own organizations. This can make it difficult to form trusting relationships with colleagues and supervisors, affecting mentorship, networking, and collaboration opportunities.
What are the cognitive, emotional, and professional impacts of concealing bisexual identity across social, academic, and professional environments?
Psychologically, individuals who conceal their bisexual identities may experience feelings of isolation, shame, fear, and anxiety due to the stigma associated with bisexuality (Bailey & Vasey, 2016; Diamond, 2008). These negative emotions can lead to depression, low self-esteem, and decreased overall well-being (Diamond, 2008).