Pornography's impact on erotic scripts
The word "pornography" refers to material that presents explicit descriptions or displays sexual behavior intended primarily for sexual stimulation. This includes pornographic films, magazines, videos, photos, websites, literature, etc. It can be produced professionally or amateurishly. Pornographic content is widely available online and is often free.
Erotic scripts are patterns of thought, behaviors, values, desires, emotions, actions, and attitudes surrounding sexual interactions between partners. They are culturally-specific, based on personal experiences, influenced by gender, age, race, ethnicity, class, religion, culture, country, and time. Erotic scripts include expectations about romance, courtship, dating, flirting, kissing, touching, oral sex, intercourse, orgasms, masturbation, intimacy, sexual orientation, sexual identity, monogamy/polygamy, jealousy, infidelity, BDSM, fetishes, kinks, swinging, exhibitionism, voyeurism, bondage, anal play, group play, etc. They also involve communication, self-presentation, affection, trust, commitment, honesty, respect, loyalty, compatibility, responsibility, consent, protection against STDs, birth control, etc. Erotic scripts have changed over time due to various social, cultural, political, religious, technological, economic, historical, psychological, medical factors.
Pornography influences erotic scripts by introducing new norms, fantasies, and expectations that may be incompatible with the user's cultural or individual background. For example, pornography may present unrealistic body types, acts, or positions that are unlikely to occur in real life. It can promote unsafe practices, such as drug use during sex, violence, racist/homophobic/sexist stereotypes, risky behaviors (unprotected sex, multiple partners, public encounters), disregard for consent, physical/emotional abuse, non-consensual elements (rape, incest, bestiality). Pornography has become a mainstream form of entertainment, affecting many people without their knowledge. Users feel aroused but often experience regret, shame, guilt, anxiety, addiction. Some may seek professional help to change their behavior. Overall, pornography contributes to sexualization, objectification, commodification, desensitization, normalization of exploitation, risk-taking, dehumanization, coercion, trauma. This impacts interpersonal relationships, family dynamics, society.
In conclusion, pornography has significant effects on personal and collective erotic scripts, altering users' perceptions of what is "normal" and acceptable. However, it should not be considered a replacement for healthy sexual education, communication, intimacy, trust, responsibility, respect. Personal choices must balance freedom and safety, pleasure and ethics, desires and consequences. Individuals who consume pornography should be aware of its potential consequences and seek support if necessary. Society should address the widespread availability of this material, protect children, vulnerable groups from harm, educate people about safe and responsible use, encourage alternative forms of entertainment.