How does internalized religious authority persist even in private sexual thought?
Sexual desire is often seen as something that can be controlled or suppressed through moral teachings, such as those found in many religions. These teachings may include beliefs about what is considered acceptable behavior during sex and what is forbidden. Religious teachings can also affect how people think about their own bodies, leading to feelings of shame, guilt, and disgust around sexual urges. Even when these teachings are not explicitly stated, they can still have an impact on how individuals approach sexuality.
The way religion influences someone's thoughts and behaviors around sexuality depends on their personal experiences, culture, and upbringing. Someone who has grown up in a conservative Christian household where sex before marriage is strongly discouraged may feel guilty for having sexual desires outside of marriage, while someone from a more liberal background may see nothing wrong with it. In addition, some religions may place greater emphasis on certain aspects of sexuality than others, like procreation vs. pleasure. This can lead to a sense of guilt or shame around certain types of intimacy, regardless of whether or not they have been taught this explicitly.
Internalizing religious teaching can be a difficult process, but it often begins at a young age. Parents and other authority figures may tell children that certain acts are sinful or unholy, which can create a negative association with those actions later in life. Children might also learn to view sex as dirty or taboo, which can make them feel ashamed if they experience any type of arousal. This can continue into adulthood and manifest itself in various ways, such as avoiding physical contact with partners or feeling guilty after engaging in sexual activity.
Even though many adults may try to distance themselves from their religious upbringing, the effects of internalized religious teachings can persist in private sexual thought. It may take time and effort to challenge these beliefs, especially if they have been ingrained since childhood.
It is possible to break free from internalized religious messages by exploring one's own desires and values, seeking support from trusted friends and family members, and learning about different perspectives on sexuality.
References
1 "Religion and Sexuality: Exploring the Intersection" (2022) - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-researcher/202206/religion-and-sexuality-exploring-the-intersection
How does internalized religious authority persist even in private sexual thought?
In an article published in 2015 by "Journal of Social Issues", researchers studied how women navigate their way between their personal desires for sexual expression and cultural expectations regarding female sexuality. They found that women who are raised in conservative religions with strong moral codes are more likely to internalize those rules and apply them to their private thoughts about sex.