In this essay, I will explore the idea that bisexual narratives of desire are often transversal, meaning they cross through time, gender, identity, and possibility to create new forms of understanding and expression of attraction, care, and relationship building. By examining the ways in which these narratives traverse across multiple dimensions, I hope to demonstrate how an expanded ethics of attraction, recognition, care, and future-oriented relationality can be envisioned within a bi/pansexual framework.
Bisexual identities have been present throughout history but have historically been marginalized due to societal norms that prioritize heteronormativity.
There is growing evidence that bisexual people exist and have existed in all cultures and times, even if their experiences and desires were hidden from view or stigmatized. This raises the question of whether bisexuality is more prevalent than previously thought, and what that means for our understanding of sexuality and identity. Some researchers argue that bisexuality may be more common than homosexuality, but other studies suggest that it varies by culture, context, and individual experience.
One way bisexual narratives of desire traverse across time and space is through the use of metaphors and imagery.
One study found that bisexual individuals commonly used fire imagery to describe their attraction to both men and women. Fire symbolizes passion and heat, suggesting a deep connection between two people. It also suggests that desire is not limited to physical attractiveness or appearance, but rather involves an emotional and spiritual connection as well. Another study found that bisexual individuals often described themselves as "bridges" connecting different communities, reflecting their ability to navigate between diverse social spaces and identify with multiple groups.
In terms of gender, bisexual narratives of desire frequently involve transgression or defiance of traditional binaries. Bisexuality challenges the assumption that gender is binary or fixed, instead recognizing that gender can be fluid and multifaceted. Bisexual people may feel attracted to characteristics associated with masculinity and femininity in various combinations, depending on the individual's own personal preferences. This challenges the idea that gender is rigidly defined and suggests that there are many ways to express oneself.
Bisexual identities also challenge assumptions about heteronormativity and monogamy. Monogamous relationships are typically assumed to be exclusive, involving only one partner, whereas bisexuality suggests that polyamory or open relationships may be more possible. Bisexuality also questions the idea that sexual orientation is static or permanent, suggesting instead that it may change over time or in response to new experiences. This opens up the possibility for multiple types of relationship structures, including non-monogamous arrangements.
By traversing across time, genders, identities, and possibilities, bisexual narratives of desire invite an expanded ethics of attraction, recognition, care, and future-oriented relationality. Bisexuality recognizes that love and attraction can take many forms and are not limited by societal norms or expectations. It encourages individuals to explore their desires without fear or shame and to embrace a diverse range of relationships and expressions of love. By embracing this transversal approach to sexuality and identity, we can create a more inclusive and accepting world where all forms of intimacy and connection are celebrated and valued.