A look back at FHM's popular letters page, which was a unique feature of the magazine that allowed readers to interact with the editors and publish their thoughts, opinions, and experiences related to sex, sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. It fostered a sense of community among readers and provided an outlet for personal expression. The letters page was a valuable source of information and inspiration for many people, covering topics such as dating, flirting, foreplay, positions, orgasms, sex toys, STDs, safe sex, masturbation, pornography, love, romance, breakups, infidelity, and more. Letters were often funny, poignant, heartfelt, or even explicit, and sometimes addressed sensitive issues like abuse, consent, and body image. Some letters were used as the basis for articles in future issues.
The letters page was a special part of the magazine that added depth and personality to the publication.
The letters page featured letters from a diverse range of writers, including men and women of various ages, races, and backgrounds, from all over the world. Readers could submit letters via mail, email, or social media, and responses were often published within a few months. Some letters were anonymous, while others included a signature or handle. Many readers appreciated the opportunity to express themselves and connect with other like-minded individuals through the letters page. One common theme was the desire for better representation in media and society - whether it was greater diversity in pornography, more inclusive attitudes toward non-monogamy, or recognition for asexuals and LGBTQ+ people. Another frequent topic was the challenges of modern dating and hookup culture, with many readers sharing their experiences with ghosting, catfishing, and miscommunications.
FHM's letters page also covered controversial topics such as BDSM, polyamory, and swingers, inviting readers to share their opinions and ask questions. Some letters were critical of the magazine itself, suggesting changes or improvements, while others praised its content and writing style. The editors responded to each letter, providing thoughtful and nuanced feedback, addressing concerns and offering resources or advice when appropriate. This open dialogue fostered trust between the magazine and its audience and helped shape future editorial decisions.
FHM's popular letters page was an important part of the magazine's identity that encouraged engagement, community, and personal expression. It allowed readers to connect with one another and provide valuable insights into sex, sexuality, intimacy, and relationships. While the letters page may no longer exist, its legacy lives on in the memories of those who participated and the impact it had on our understanding of these complex and often taboo subjects.