One of the most interesting research areas in psychology is human sexuality, particularly when it comes to understanding how individuals express their desires and preferences during sexual encounters. While some people may enjoy being dominant or submissive in bed, there has been debate about whether these behaviors are linked to broader personality traits. Researchers have explored various factors that might contribute to this link, including genetics, childhood experiences, and cultural norms. In this article, I will discuss what is known about the relationship between sexual submission/dominance and personality traits.
The most commonly studied trait related to sexual submission/domination is gender. Studies show that men tend to be more likely to take on dominant roles in the bedroom than women, while women are more likely to assume submissive roles.
Other studies suggest that this pattern may not hold true for all couples or in all contexts. Some research also suggests that certain personality traits may make someone more prone to either dominating or submitting during sex, such as extroversion and openness to experience.
Extroverts may be more likely to seek out new sexual experiences and take charge in bed, while introverts may prefer a more passive role.
High levels of agreeableness (i.e., being kind, cooperative, and empathic) may correlate with submissiveness, while low levels of conscientiousness (i.e., low impulse control and disorganization) may correspond with dominance.
Genetic factors may also play a role in shaping sexual behavior. A 2019 study found that individuals who had higher levels of oxytocin receptors were more likely to engage in submissive behavior, suggesting that biological processes could influence sexuality. Other research has shown that differences in genes associated with dopamine signaling can affect sexual desire and arousal, which might impact whether an individual feels comfortable taking on a dominant or submissive role. Cultural norms and values can also shape these behaviors.
Societies that place greater emphasis on traditional gender roles may see men as dominant and women as submissive in sexual encounters, leading people to conform to those expectations regardless of their personal preference.
The relationship between sexual submission/dominance and broader personality traits is complex and multifaceted. While some general patterns do emerge, there are many other factors at play that determine how someone expresses themselves sexually. As we continue to explore this topic, it will be important for researchers to consider all potential influences on sexual behavior to better understand why some individuals take on certain roles during intimate encounters.
How does sexual submission or dominance relate to broader personality traits?
While studies have suggested that there may be some correlations between certain individual differences and specific sexual preferences for submission or dominance, it is important to note that these findings are highly variable across different populations and methodologies. Some research has linked higher levels of neuroticism, lower levels of agreeableness, and greater levels of conscientiousness with increased likelihood of preference for submissive roles during sexual activity (e. g. , Weatherhead et al.