Listening is one of the most important skills that people can possess. It allows them to understand what others are saying and respond accordingly. However, listening erotically takes this skill to a...
What do you withhold sexually — and why?
There are many reasons to withhold sexual behavior. In this article, I will explain some common reasons people may choose to abstain from sex.
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How has your relationship with power changed through sexual experience? Power is an abstract concept that can take many forms, including social, economic, political, psychological, and physical. In...
Mystery has been an essential part of human life since ancient times, providing a sense of excitement and intrigue that can be both stimulating and dangerous. It may refer to something hidden,...
What stories about "good" or "bad" sex still live inside you?
Imagine yourself at age 12 in your bedroom, playing with dolls. Your friends are outside playing soccer. You hear footsteps...
This is a challenging question to answer because there are many different perspectives and experiences when it comes to being sexually seen. For some people, being sexually seen can be an extremely...
What's the Difference Between Feeling Used and Feeling Desired?
When it comes to relationships, people often talk about "feeling used" or "feeling desired." But what exactly is the difference...
Your partner is unique and has a lot to offer, but their desires can sometimes conflict with your own beliefs and values. When this happens, it's important to remember that compromise and...
Do you believe healing sexually is possible without a partner? This question has been debated among psychologists for years, but there are some who argue that yes, it can be done. Sexual healing...
What Part of Your Sexual Story Still Feels Unresolved?
Have you ever thought about why some aspects of your sexual history are more challenging to talk about than others? For example, maybe it's...