Mirrors May Mark Emotional Turning Points
Watching oneself break during a scene can be powerful, whether it's crying, surrendering, or something else. Partners often need to watch their partner...
Some Dominants may ask their Submissives during play if they are still in subspace or want to affirm their place within the power exchange. This verbal checkpoint can be used to maintain alignment,...
The act of consciously controlling one's breathing during sexual encounters has been used for centuries as a means of enhancing pleasure and connection between partners. In recent years, this...
Some people have one object that they use across scenes to help them remember where they are in their dynamic, and how to get back there when they need to.
A person might wear a certain piece of...
Sadomasochism is a form of BDSM that involves inflicting pain or humiliation for pleasure. Sadists enjoy causing physical or mental discomfort to others, while masochists derive satisfaction from...
Asymmetry is natural in many human interactions. Power, knowledge, skills, experience, age, social status, physical attributes, mental state - each person has their own strengths and weaknesses. In...
Anchoring is a psychological technique used to influence people's behavior. It involves attaching an idea or object to another one, so that when someone encounters the second idea or object, they...
There are many benefits to incorporating sound into your BDSM scene, such as enhancing pleasure and creating a more immersive experience.
When working with a Dominant partner who is blindfolding...
Some Submissives Crave Responsibility Paradoxically
Choosing submission can be a powerful act of responsibility, and for some people who enjoy it, it is an opportunity to practice self-discipline...
Fear Play Is a High-Risk, High-Reward Kink
People might enjoy thrillers, horror movies, or roller coasters because of the excitement of facing something dangerous while feeling safe. Some people...