The issue of predation is a significant concern in community play spaces where people meet to explore their sexual desires. Predators may take advantage of unsuspecting individuals, causing harm to...
Consent Guardians Provide Oversight
Some kink community events designate a "consent guardian"—a neutral person to watch, support, and intervene if consent is at risk. These roles were designed for...
Aftercare can be solo or partnered, not everyone wants physical intimacy post-scene. Some need solitude, journaling, or soft music. Others crave touch, warmth, or caring conversation. Respecting...
Ethical communities screen new members
Communities of people who share similar interests often form around those interests, whether it be knitting, bird watching, or martial arts. Sometimes these...
The concept of "consent guardians" has been gaining traction in recent years as a way for groups to foster trust and accountability in their dynamic. While it may seem like an unorthodox approach at...
No Means No, Always - Rules for Sexual Consent
Sexual violence occurs when someone has unwanted sexual contact with another person without their explicit consent. Whether it's physical touching,...
Breath Control Is Often Best Avoided Despite fascination, breath play is one of the most dangerous kinks, Many communities recommend avoiding it entirely—with life-or-death stakes if misread, Some...
In the world of BDSM, many people believe that incorporating safety into their scenes can take away from the fantasy element of the experience.
This is far from the truth. Using safewords and...
The practice of dripping hot wax onto a person's body is an exciting and often unexplored activity within BDSM communities that has its own unique set of risks. When executed correctly, this type of...
As a social species, humans have always had a tendency towards exhibitionism. People love to put themselves out there and show off their skills, talents, or physical assets.
When it comes to sex,...