Sex can be a variety of things. It can be passionate, fiery, intense, but sometimes it can also just be comfortable, relaxing, and even goofy. There are times when people don't want to do anything...
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: The intimate side of sex: exploring the beauty of comfortable, relaxed, and goofy moments
Different communities have different ways to handle mental health issues among their members. One such way is through the use of kink aware therapy resources. These are therapists who are trained in...
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: how kink aware therapy is revolutionizing relationships in the bdsm community
Some Dominants may ask their Submissives during play if they are still in subspace or want to affirm their place within the power exchange. This verbal checkpoint can be used to maintain alignment,...
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: Are you still my submissive? a checkpoint for maintaining alignment, boundaries, and safety during power exchange
Conflict Resolution is an important part of any successful relationship.
For kink-infused post-scene disagreements, it can be especially challenging to find an effective resolution that works for...
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: How to use d/s structures to resolve kinky relationship conflicts and strengthen your power exchange dynamic
The concept of "consent guardians" has been gaining traction in recent years as a way for groups to foster trust and accountability in their dynamic. While it may seem like an unorthodox approach at...
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: What is a consent guardian? understanding their role in group activities
Hierarchical Communication Structures Are Common in Families and Groups
In many groups and families, there are established tiers or levels of communication. This means that certain individuals...
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: Hierarchical structures and physical intimacy: exploring consensual boundaries for better relationships
Intersectionality shapes kink experience. Race, gender, orientation, and disability affect how people navigate kink spaces. Kink is an umbrella term for various activities that involve power dynamics...
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: Intersectionality shapes kink experience: how gender, orientation, disability, and more impact safe exploration
Power exchange kinks are cultural variations that are influenced by societal norms and personal values. This means that what might be considered normal behavior in one culture could be seen as taboo...
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: Power exchange kinks: exploring cultural differences and developing effective communication
Domming Isn't Always About Leading
Some Dominants prefer to facilitate rather than command.
They guide the scene subtly, support exploration, and let the submissive's needs shape the...
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: Service submission of a dominant: guiding, supporting, and facilitating intimate pleasures for ultimate connection
BDSM Is About Consent, Not Violence
A common misconception is that BDSM is all about violence.
This could not be further from the truth. At its core, BDSM is about consent. Before engaging in...
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: Consentbased bdsm: exploring power dynamics for heightened pleasure & trust