Money Can Be Part of Power Exchange In some dynamics, financial control is consensually given to the dominant as part of trust and submission, often with clear boundaries. This can include the...
In BDSM play, the term "dom" is often used to describe someone who takes control during scenes.
Being a dom does not necessarily mean that you are top in every aspect of play, including...
Mirror-based training has been used since ancient times for many different purposes. It is believed that using a mirror can provide valuable feedback to those who wish to improve their appearance,...
Digital communication has become an essential part of many people's lives. As more and more people rely on smartphones, tablets, and computers to stay connected with friends, family, and colleagues,...
Accessory Weight Can Serve as Control
A weighted collar or light anklet remains worn outside scenes—reminding the submissive of presence, devotion, or boundary even in daily life. In some ways,...
Some Use Soundless Gags to Enhance Pressure
Nonverbal control—like bondage with silent gags—focuses on pressure or performance rather than voice, It heightens the physical constraint, Silence...
Emotional Contrast Intensifies Punishment Pairing sharp discipline with immediate praise or affection—like a spanking followed by a hug—heightens emotional charge, It deepens impact, Contrast plays...
Affection is an integral part of healthy BDSM relationships, but many people don't understand how to incorporate it into their scenes. They think that showing affection during play will undermine the...
Food and Play Are Intertwined Sometimes Some scenes involve erotic food play—feeding submissives, denied bites, or sensual tasting, This ties control, nurturing, and sensory experience together, Food...
Some people may think that submission is only for people who are weak or timid, but there is more to this dynamic than meets the eye. In fact, some submissives have strong personalities outside of...