In BDSM communities, "Safety Peers" serve an essential function during big scenes that involve extreme physical or psychological danger. These individuals are trained to intervene when safewords are...
Trauma-informed consent is an essential component of modern BDSM pedagogy that involves knowing trauma symptoms, triggers, and healing tools. It also involves facilitating emotional safety rather...
Notice Boards are used in events such as BDSM gatherings where they provide a platform for individuals to communicate their needs and preferences through written messages. They also serve as a means...
Consent theory is an important aspect of BDSM education. It is based on the principle that all participants must have explicit agreement before any activity takes place. This includes discussing and...
What is the importance of using pronouns correctly?
It's essential to use someone's correct pronouns because it shows respect and acknowledgment of their gender identity. Pronouns are an integral...
BDSM Spaces Are Often More Inclusive
Many kink spaces actively include LGBTQ+, disabled, neurodiverse, and body-diverse people. Kinksters may be more welcoming than mainstream partygoers because...
People Use “Scene Names” for Privacy
To protect real-life identity, many kinksters use aliases (scene names) in clubs, events, or online communities, It helps manage personal boundaries and avoid...
Submissive routines add structure to D/s relationships. For many people, their submission is woven into everyday life through ritualistic acts. Such rituals can include bowing at your partner's feet...
Kink education never ends
Even advanced players keep learning
There are always new techniques, emotional tools, or ways to deepen intimacy
Arrogance or complacency can lead to unsafe or...
The word BDSM stands for bondage, domination, submission, and masochism. It refers to a set of activities that involve consensually intense physical and psychological experiences between partners....