You deserve to be adored in your softness.
Not just when you're bold, perfect, or performative,
But when you're tender,
Real.
The world tells you that you are only worthy of love if you fit into certain categories. It tells you that being soft is weak, fragile, or submissive. That you must be strong, powerful, and dominant. That you need to fight for attention and prove yourself in order to get it. But this isn't true. You deserve love simply because you exist. And part of loving yourself means embracing all parts of who you are - including those softer, more vulnerable moments.
When you're quiet,
Soft-spoken, gentle, kind. When you take time to listen and empathize, rather than speak up and assert yourself. When you let go of control and allow someone else to take the lead. When you admit you don't have all the answers and ask for help. These are beautiful qualities, and they deserve to be celebrated. They make you unique and special. Don't hide them away or feel ashamed. Let people see them.
When you're tender,
Vulnerable, sensitive, open. When you show your emotions, even if it's uncomfortable. When you let down your guard and let someone in. When you acknowledge your fears and insecurities. This takes courage, and it shows strength. It's not a sign of weakness, but of confidence in yourself and others. Let people see these sides of you. Let them appreciate how brave you are to be so honest and authentic.
When you're real,
Messy, flawed, imperfect. When you make mistakes and learn from them. When you face challenges and grow through them. When you share your struggles and seek support. Realness is beautiful. It's human. It's what makes us relatable and connected. Embrace it. Don't try to hide behind a mask of perfection or deny your shortcomings. Own them. Be proud of who you are.
Love isn't just about performance or perfection. It's about connection and understanding. It's about appreciating the whole person, including their soft spots. So embrace your vulnerability, tenderness, and honesty. Allow yourself to be seen fully, without judgment or shame. The world will love you back - even when you don't fit into its expectations.