The practice of restricting the amount of sex between married partners is known as sexual frequency control. Sexual frequency refers to the frequency with which couples have sexual intercourse. Religions around the world have varying beliefs about the optimal sexual frequency for married couples. Some cultures view sex within marriage as taboo while others encourage it frequently. This paper will explore how various religions regulate sexual frequency in marriage.
Christianity is one of the most prominent religions that regulate sexual frequency in marriage. The Bible states that "the husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife" and provides guidance on how often this should be done.
In the Book of Genesis, God commands Adam and Eve to multiply and replenish the earth, implying that they must engage in frequent sexual activity.
Other verses suggest abstinence from sex during certain times, such as when a woman is menstruating or pregnant.
In Islam, sex in marriage is viewed as a sacred act. Muslims believe that a man may only have sex with his wife after she has bathed and purified herself beforehand. The Quran also forbids adultery and extramarital affairs. In contrast, Buddhism teaches moderation in all aspects of life, including sex. Buddhists believe that excessive sexual desire leads to suffering and encourages monogamy over polygamy.
Hinduism does not have a set rule regarding sexual frequency, but some sects recommend abstaining from sex for a period of time each year. During this period, partners are expected to focus on spiritual pursuits instead. Judaism believes that sex is an important part of marriage, but it does not specify how often it should occur. Orthodox Jews typically refrain from having sex during periods of mourning or fasting.
Buddhism is another religion that promotes monogamy. Buddhist teachings encourage couples to remain faithful to their partner, even if they are no longer attracted to them. This belief stems from the idea that attachment causes suffering. Mormons follow similar guidelines by emphasizing the importance of fidelity within marriage. They believe that sex between married couples should be limited to procreation and avoidance of lustful thoughts.
Religions regulate sexual frequency in marriage through various beliefs and practices. While some encourage frequent sexual activity, others advocate for restraint.
The ideal amount of sex depends on individual preferences and cultural norms.