Sexuality is an integral part of human existence that has been a subject of interest for centuries.
Society's perception of it has been narrow-minded, biased, and often ignorant. Sexuality encompasses physical aspects such as genitalia, body shape, height, weight, color, and so on. These factors are crucial elements in determining one's orientation towards their partner during the act.
It involves emotional aspects like attraction, love, affection, feelings, lust, desire, and others. It is essential to note that sexuality differs from gender because there can be males who prefer females physically but identify themselves as transgenders while vice versa. Therefore, inclusive sex education is necessary since it ensures that all genders and orientations are taught about sexuality and its importance in healthy living. Sex education should cover different types of intercourse, contraceptives, and how to prevent STDs.
Inclusive sex education teaches students about the difference between sexual intimacy and sexual abuse.
Touching someone without consent is considered sexual assault, regardless of whether they have had previous consensual relationships with them or not. Teachers should educate learners on the dangers of premarital sex and warn them against unsafe situations involving multiple partners. Inclusivity is also important because students need to understand that people can be sexually attracted to anyone irrespective of their age, race, appearance, ethnicity, religion, social status, etc. Students must know what constitutes rape, harassment, stalking, molestation, and other related forms of abuse. Learners should understand that some individuals may experience orgasms earlier than others; thus, patience and understanding are vital.
Long-term outcomes result from inclusive sex and gender education. Firstly, it helps promote positive body image and self-esteem among students. The lessons address issues such as body image problems resulting from societal standards like physical attributes and shape. They provide solutions to these challenges, which impact negatively on one's mental wellbeing. Secondly, it improves relationship skills by teaching learners how to communicate effectively, resolve conflicts, respect boundaries, and empathize with others. Thirdly, it reduces teenage pregnancies since learners acquire information about safe sex practices such as condom use and emergency contraceptives.
Inclusive sex education prevents violence and promotes a healthy lifestyle by emphasizing the importance of abstinence.
What long-term social outcomes emerge from inclusive sex and gender education?
Research on inclusive sex and gender education is still limited but promising. Studies have shown that this approach helps reduce stereotypes about masculinity and femininity, prejudice against LGBTQ+ individuals, and gender-based violence. It also increases communication and collaboration skills, which are important for all children's academic success. Overall, inclusive sex and gender education may lead to more equal and diverse communities with better mental health and less discrimination.