Many researchers have suggested that anticipatory processes involving interpersonal anxiety could play an important role in romantic attraction and attachment.
Few studies have investigated how anticipation of rejection affects romantic attachment, intimacy, and relational trust among LGBTQ individuals. In order to address this gap in the literature, the present study examined the associations between interpersonal anxiety and relationship outcomes in a sample of 200 self-identified gay men who were either single or dating someone but had been previously rejected. Participants completed measures of perceived likelihood of rejection, perceived relationship quality, and relational trust before engaging in a series of text message exchanges with a virtual partner. The results revealed significant relationships between perceived likelihood of rejection and relational trust as well as relational trust and relationship satisfaction. These findings suggest that feelings of vulnerability may influence relational trust and subsequent commitment for LGBTQ individuals, especially those who have experienced rejection in past relationships.
Methodology
Participants were recruited through social media platforms and online forums specifically geared towards the LGBTQ community. All participants identified as male, gay, and over the age of 18. Participants were provided with detailed instructions regarding the purpose of the study and informed consent form prior to participation. A total of 200 participants completed all aspects of the study.
Procedure
Participants first completed a series of demographic questions, including their gender identity, sexual orientation, age, race/ethnicity, education level, and relationship status. Next, they rated their perceptions of likelihood of rejection from previous romantic partners on a scale of 1 (not at all likely) to 5 (very likely). They also completed measures of attachment style, intimacy seeking behavior, and interpersonal anxiety.
They engaged in a simulated text message conversation with an avatar representing a potential romantic partner. During this interaction, they were asked to rate their own feelings of intimacy and closeness toward their partner as well as their perceptions of the partner's interest in continuing the relationship.
Results
The results revealed a significant positive correlation between perceived likelihood of rejection and relational trust. Specifically, higher levels of perceived likelihood of rejection were associated with lower levels of relational trust. There was no significant association between relational trust and relationship satisfaction. The findings suggest that anticipatory processes involving interpersonal anxiety may influence relational trust for LGBTQ individuals who have experienced rejection in past relationships.
Discussion
These findings are consistent with previous research suggesting that interpersonal anxiety is associated with negative relationship outcomes, particularly among those who have experienced rejection in past relationships.
Further research is needed to explore how these associations vary across different relationship stages and contexts. It is possible that interpersonal anxiety may be most pronounced during initial stages of dating or when entering into new relationships.
It would be interesting to examine whether interventions aimed at reducing anticipatory distress could improve relationship outcomes for LGBTQ individuals. Future research should also consider exploring gender differences in these associations, given the possibility that men may experience greater pressure to conform to stereotypical masculine norms regarding emotional expression and vulnerability.
How does anticipation of rejection affect romantic attachment, intimacy, and relational trust in LGBTQ individuals?
Research has shown that feelings of anticipatory rejection can have significant effects on relationships among members of the LGBTQ community. In particular, anticipating rejection from a potential partner or partner's family member may lead to a decreased sense of romantic attachment, intimacy, and relational trust.