The clitoris is an elusive part of female anatomy that often gets overlooked in discussions about human sexual pleasure. Most people know it exists, but many are unaware of its true size and extent. In fact, the clitoris contains internal parts extending several centimeters inside the body, which means there's much more to this tiny organ than meets the eye!
First, let's explore how the clitoris develops during fetal development. Starting around week six of gestation, a small mass of cells called the corpus cavernosum begins to grow into what will become the shaft of the clitoris. As the fetus grows, so does the clitoris. By birth, the shaft of the clitoris can reach up to three inches long, though it's not visible through the skin until puberty when hormones cause it to swell and become engorged with blood. This process continues throughout adolescence, with the clitoral head eventually becoming sensitive to touch at around age 16 or 17.
When fully developed, the average adult clitoris measures between two and four inches in length. However, some women may have larger or smaller clits depending on their individual genetic makeup. The size and shape of the clitoris also vary from woman to woman, meaning no two clits look exactly alike. Some clits even contain additional structures like crura (roots), a pair of internal ligaments that connect the clit to the pelvic bone.
The internal parts of the clit extend beyond the glans (head) we see protruding from the vulva. In fact, the entire internal structure is made up of spongy tissue filled with nerve endings and blood vessels. These inner workings allow for intense pleasure sensations during sexual stimulation. When aroused, the body releases oxytocin, a hormone that causes vaginal walls to contract and increase friction against the surrounding area - including the clitoris. This is why some people say that penetrative sex alone isn't enough to achieve orgasm; the internal workings of the clitoris must be involved as well.
Despite its importance, many women don't know how to find their own clit properly. Properly stimulating this delicate organ requires patience and attention to detail. Start by slowly running your fingers over the external glans, then gently teasing downward along the shaft until you feel the base. You can use your tongue or mouth to lick and suckle the head while continuing to rub the shaft and base. If you want more direct contact, try using a vibrator or dildo on the glans or inside the vagina. Orgasms are often stronger when both partners participate in clit stimulation simultaneously.
While every woman is different, most agree that proper clit stimulation leads to incredible pleasure. The key is taking things slow and finding what works best for each individual body. Don't be afraid to experiment! With practice and patience, anyone can become an expert at giving their partner(s) unforgettable orgasms thanks to this tiny yet mighty part of female anatomy.