In many parts of rural America, LGBTQ+ individuals experience difficulties that urban dwellers do not face. These can include hostility from others and lack of community resources. Without access to safe places where they can be themselves without fear, queer people in these areas may feel isolated and alone. They may also have difficulty finding friends who share their identities and interests. This isolation can lead to mental health issues like anxiety and depression. It is also harder for them to find partners because they are less likely to meet potential romantic interests in public spaces. Moreover, when they do encounter someone they might want to date, it can be difficult to gauge whether or not there will be compatibility since there is no shared culture or history.
Gay men often rely heavily on dating apps to meet other men. But if you're living in a small town without much of an online presence, this option isn't available.
The cultural norms and expectations of traditional dating don't always apply, which can make things even more challenging.
Many queer people move away from rural areas in search of more accepting communities.
Leaving behind family and friends is hard, as is trying to start over somewhere new. This migration has had negative effects on the economies of smaller towns, as well as on political representation and social progress. With fewer queer people living there, it becomes easier for conservative politicians to push through policies that discriminate against them.
These regions lose out on talent that could bring innovation and economic growth.
Moving away means losing touch with one's roots and traditions, which can damage self-esteem and identity.
The lack of visibility and communal spaces for LGBTQ+ individuals in rural areas has far-reaching consequences. It affects all aspects of life, from relationships to careers to politics. By providing resources and safe spaces where queer people feel welcome and supported, we can help address some of these issues.
What are the social and psychological effects of limited queer visibility and the absence of communal spaces in provincial or conservative areas?
The study "Loneliness among LGBTQ+ individuals: An Examination of Gender Differences" by Sara C. Pais and colleagues (2019) found that being closeted was associated with higher levels of loneliness, which may further lead to depression, anxiety, and isolation in rural communities where there is no visible LGBTQ+ community.