In warfare, military personnel face various challenges that shape their life, personality, and behaviour. They are exposed to horrific experiences and witness death, which may have lasting effects on them even after they leave active duty. Research shows that past military service can affect how soldiers communicate, handle conflicts, and build trust with others. This paper will explore the relationship between soldiers' previous service experiences and their current interaction patterns.
Soldiers who experienced traumatic incidents during their time in the army often struggle to form close relationships because they fear losing loved ones again. Some also find it difficult to trust people due to betrayal from colleagues in battle. These traits influence communication patterns, leading to guardedness and emotional distance. When faced with disagreements, such individuals tend to avoid confrontation as they do not want to risk being hurt emotionally or physically. They may be passive-aggressive instead, using indirect methods to express frustration while hoping for positive outcomes without explicitly stating their demands. Others may suppress anger and refuse to share it publicly until they explode privately, creating an explosive situation.
Veterans may suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), characterised by anxiety, flashbacks, nightmares, agitation, and hypervigilance, making them easily irritable, suspicious, and quick to react. They may lash out at others unpredictably, causing misunderstandings and tension.
Soldiers who had positive encounters in the army might display high trust levels in civilian life. They are comfortable forming bonds with new people, knowing they can depend on each other in times of need. Such individuals also engage in open communication, sharing their thoughts and feelings freely, building strong connections that benefit both parties. Their willingness to seek advice and support makes them excellent team players who can collaborate effectively. In conflicts, these troops speak up directly, communicating assertively, confidently addressing issues instead of sweeping them under the rug. This trait fosters honesty and transparency, enabling them to resolve disputes quickly and peacefully. As a result, these soldiers build trust faster than those with trauma histories.
Military service experiences shape how soldiers communicate, handle conflict, and establish trust. Those who have faced trauma may struggle with relationships, preferring emotional distance and avoidance to confrontation. On the other hand, those with positive experiences showcase high confidence, honesty, and collaboration, leading to better interactions in civilian life.
How do soldiers' previous service experiences—positive or traumatic—shape their current communication patterns, conflict styles, and trust thresholds?
Soldiers who have previously served in combat may exhibit different communication patterns, conflict styles, and trust thresholds than those who have not. Those with positive service experience may be more open, direct, assertive, and willing to take risks due to their confidence in themselves and others. They may also prioritize collaboration and teamwork over individualism and competition.