The concept of sexual scripts has been researched extensively to understand how people learn about sexual behavior from various sources such as media, peers, and family members. Erotic films are one such source that portrays sexual interactions between characters in different situations and settings, influencing viewers' perceptions of what is considered normal or desirable behavior in real life relationships. This paper discusses how erotic films create sexual scripts that influence relational expectations and performance standards.
Sexual scripts refer to socially constructed beliefs about appropriate sexual behaviors and practices based on cultural norms, gender roles, and social status. They can be learned through personal experiences or mediated experiences like erotica. Media, especially movies, have become an integral part of our lives since they provide entertainment while also reflecting social values and beliefs. According to Bogle (2017), pornography has historically shaped sexual scripts for men, but recent decades have seen a rise in female-centric films that redefine sexually empowered women. In these films, women take charge and initiate intimacy, which was previously uncommon in popular culture.
This does not mean that all women emulate these behaviors in their actual lives; rather, it means that they may be more open to exploring new ways of expressing themselves sexually than before.
Erotic films often portray fantasized scenarios where characters enjoy risky encounters without negative consequences. Characters engage in non-monogamous relationships without jealousy or guilt, suggestive dressing with no judgement from others, and explicit acts without fear of judgment or stigma. These scripts encourage viewers to believe that such behaviors are acceptable and even desirable, leading them to mimic them in their own interactions.
Research by Hald et al. (2020) shows that people who regularly watch erotic films tend to adopt the idea that casual sex is normal and acceptable. This can lead to unrealistic expectations about what constitutes good sex and pressure to live up to those standards. Similarly, scripted performances in erotic films create unattainable standards for intimacy and attraction, making viewers feel inferior if they cannot replicate them in real life.
Erotic films shape sexual scripts through idealized and fantastical depictions of sexual behavior, creating unrealistic expectations for relational performance standards. Viewers may struggle to meet these expectations due to various factors like physical appearance, health issues, or emotional challenges. Therefore, it's crucial for media consumers to critically analyze their content, recognize its limitations, and reflect on their personal values when forming relationships.
How do erotic films create sexual scripts that influence relational expectations and performance standards?
Erotic films can help shape individuals' sexual scripts by portraying idealized versions of sexuality and intimacy that may not be achievable in real life, setting unrealistic expectations for relationships. The overemphasis on physical attraction and performance-based sex can also contribute to misconceptions about what constitutes healthy and fulfilling sexual experiences.