Parent-child communication about sex: the early years
According to the literature, parents tend to avoid discussing the subject of sex with their children until they are teenagers. In reality, parents need to talk to their kids about this topic from an early age. It is important that they start talking about it before puberty, when hormones begin to affect their development and they become more aware of their bodies. At this point, parents can explain what sexual intercourse is, how babies are made, how pregnancy happens, and how to prevent pregnancy. They should also teach them about good touches and bad touches, so they know how to respond if someone tries to harm them physically or sexually. If parents wait too long, their children might learn about these things from friends or the internet, which may be misleading or disturbing.
The impact of parental communication on adult sexual behaviors
It turns out that the way parents communicate about sex has a strong influence on their children's behavior as young adults. Studies show that children whose parents speak openly about this topic have less risk-taking attitudes towards sex and are less likely to engage in risky behaviors such as unprotected sex, STIs, teenage pregnancies, and other consequences. On the contrary, those who do not receive enough information from their parents tend to experiment more and take greater chances. Moreover, if parents provide their children with accurate and comprehensive information, they will feel more comfortable asking questions and learning more about sexuality and relationships.
Parents who set boundaries for their kids and establish healthy norms are able to help them develop positive attitudes towards their own body and emotions.
Parents need to talk to their children about sex early and often. Doing so can help them develop healthier attitudes and habits, protect themselves against negative influences, and avoid risky situations. It can also strengthen their relationship and build trust between them.
How does parental communication about sex shape adult sexual behaviors?
Parental communication about sex can have a significant impact on their children's attitudes and beliefs towards sex, which may influence their sexual behaviors as adults. Parents who openly discuss topics related to sexuality with their children are more likely to promote positive values and attitudes around safe and healthy sexual behaviors, while parents who avoid these topics or present misinformation may create a negative environment that can lead to confusion and shame surrounding sexuality.