About 10–20% of people enjoy pain as part of sexual stimulation — due to endorphin and dopamine release.
The sensation of pleasure and pain can both be felt during sexual activity. However, some individuals may experience discomfort during sex, such as physical pain or emotional distress. In contrast, others may find that certain types of physical pain intensify their pleasure. This phenomenon is known as masochism, which is derived from the Greek word "masos," meaning "penalty" or "punishment." Masochism is also referred to as sadomasochism when combined with sadism, or taking pleasure from inflicting pain on another person.
Sadomasochism involves the consensual exchange of power between partners where one person takes pleasure from causing pain and the other experiences pain for pleasure. The practice of BDSM (Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, and Sadism and Masochism) includes activities such as bondage, spanking, flogging, and humiliation. These activities involve the use of implements like whips, chains, rope, and clamps to enhance the experience.
Physiologically, a person's brain releases neurotransmitters like dopamine and endorphins during sexual arousal. Endorphins are natural opioids produced by the body that reduce pain perception. They create a sense of euphoria or pleasure, similar to how morphine works. Dopamine is associated with the reward system in the brain and produces feelings of pleasure and motivation. When a person experiences physical stimulation, the release of these chemicals increases sexual desire and arousal.
Some people find that certain levels of pain can heighten their sensations during sex, but this does not mean they should engage in dangerous practices without proper consent. People who enjoy pain should explore safe and consensual ways to indulge in it. This might include using a feather tickler, ice cubes, or erotic massages instead of more extreme methods like spanking or flogging.
Ultimately, enjoying pain during sex is a personal preference that some may never understand. It's important for individuals to communicate openly with their partner about their preferences and boundaries to ensure a positive experience.