Most exiled people face immense challenges when it comes to maintaining their identity and culture, especially if they have been forced to leave their home due to political persecution or conflict. This is particularly true for members of marginalized groups who may be targeted because of their ethnicity, religion, or sexual orientation.
LGBTQIA+ individuals may experience even greater stigma and discrimination both abroad and within refugee camps where they are already vulnerable.
Despite these difficulties, many exiled communities have found ways to maintain their cultural practices, including traditional gender roles and family structures. This can be seen in how some displaced communities manage erotic longing in alien contexts.
Refugee women from Syria and Iraq often turn to online dating sites like Tinder to find romantic partners.
This practice has come under criticism from conservative religious leaders who believe that such behavior threatens traditional values and morals.
Some exiled communities have developed innovative strategies to satisfy their sexual desires without relying on traditional relationships. One example is the "Love Hotels" popular in South Korea, which offer private rooms for couples to spend time together. These hotels have become a haven for migrant workers looking for companionship, but also for exiles seeking intimacy away from the prying eyes of authorities. Another strategy is sex work, which provides an income while offering companionship and sexual satisfaction.
It's important to note that not all exiled people choose this route as it can carry social stigma.
Managing erotic longing in alien contexts presents unique challenges for displaced communities. While some rely on dating apps and sex work, others seek out alternative solutions to meet their needs. Regardless of the approach taken, it's clear that exile forces communities to adapt and find new ways of expressing themselves, including through intimate relationships.
How do exiled communities manage erotic longing in displaced and culturally alien contexts?
Exile is often accompanied by loss of familiar surroundings, social connections, and cultural practices that may include traditional forms of courtship and sexuality (Ghosh & Dasgupta 2019). This can lead to feelings of loneliness and isolation, which can trigger intense emotions such as longing for intimacy and desire for belonging.