How to safely introduce sexual toys or props without embarrassment?
There are many reasons why people might want to add some fun into their bedroom lives, including improving their relationship, exploring new sensations, or simply experimenting with different kinds of play. But introducing sexual toys or props can be tricky if you're worried about your partner finding them too risky, weird, or just plain silly. In this guide, I will show you how to get started safely, so that you can both enjoy the benefits of using toys together!
First, choose a time when you and your partner are relaxed and feeling positive. This could be after a date night or during an otherwise quiet evening at home. Explain that you would like to try something new, but it may feel awkward for either of you. Reassure them that you don't expect anything more than companionship – no pressure, just curiosity. Then, present the idea of trying out a sex toy or prop together.
Next, start slow and build up slowly. For example, try starting with a simple vibrator or cock ring instead of a dildo or strap-on harness. Or, if you'd rather, begin with role-playing scenarios involving these items. Remember that you should never force someone to use a toy they're not comfortable with, even if they agreed in theory. Finally, keep communication open throughout the experience. Ask what is working well and what isn't, as you go along. Encourage questions and feedback from both partners, and take turns sharing any concerns or fears. If one person feels embarrassed or uncomfortable, stop immediately and talk it through. Don't make assumptions about their reactions and don't rush into anything without making sure everyone is ready. Overall, introducing sexual toys or props doesn't have to be scary or embarrassing. With patience, understanding, and respectful dialogue, you can both learn to enjoy this kind of play safely and responsibly. Just remember to always prioritize each other's comfort and trust above all else!