The physical and emotional experiences of Orthodox Jewish women who have to follow the traditional rules of sexual intercourse that forbid the usage of birth control are different from those who don't need to adhere to such regulations. These women are required to undergo numerous restrictions during their menstrual cycles and fertility periods to avoid pregnancy and stay pure. They have to observe abstinence for at least three days out of every month and cannot engage in penetrative sexual activity while they are bleeding. This means that there is no sexual pleasure involved in these activities and it can be quite challenging for them. Many women feel left out since they cannot enjoy an active sexual relationship like other couples do.
Some see this as a way to preserve purity and religious devotion.
Duty vs. bodily limitation
Some believe that contraceptive limitations are not a restriction but rather a duty to God, which makes them feel less guilty about the situation. The fact that they cannot plan or prevent a baby from coming adds another level of difficulty to the whole process. Women may also find themselves constantly trying to time sex in order to achieve conception and avoid getting pregnant at inconvenient times. All of these factors can lead to feelings of helplessness and hopelessness. On the other hand, many women view it as a way of preserving a sacred act between them and their partners. It keeps them focused on the spiritual aspects instead of just the physical ones.
Emotional effects
Orthodox Jewish women often report feeling shame, embarrassment, anger, frustration, and guilt due to having to follow these rules.
Some may feel ashamed when people ask why they don't have children or blame themselves for not being able to conceive. Others get angry because they want more control over their bodies and lives. Guilt is common among those who disobey the restrictions even though it contradicts with their religious beliefs. These emotions can cause anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and strain on relationships. Some women turn to support groups or therapy sessions to cope with these issues. Others try to reframe their perspectives and find ways to make peace with the situation.
How do Orthodox Jewish women psychologically experience contraceptive restrictions as religious duty or bodily limitation?
"Orthodox Jewish women who adhere to traditional religious practices may view contraceptives not only as moral obligations but also as physical limitations that affect their fertility and sexual pleasure. The belief that pregnancy is a divine gift from God can create feelings of guilt and anxiety about taking control of one's reproductive health.