Sexual coercion is when someone makes you do something against your will during sex that you don't want to do. It can include forcing you to have sex, pressuring you to do certain things, or refusing to have sex until you agree to something else. Sexual coercion may lead to sexual assault, rape, or domestic violence. Sexual coercion can be verbal, physical, or emotional. Neglect in partnerships happens when one partner does not meet their partner's needs for attention, affection, communication, or commitment. This can lead to feelings of loneliness, anger, frustration, and low self-esteem. Sexual coercion and neglect can cause many problems in partnerships. Both partners may feel hurt, upset, sad, angry, or scared. They may fight more often and less respectfully. They may worry about trust issues, infidelity, and intimacy. One partner may become distant or jealous. The relationship may break down completely if not addressed properly.
To avoid sexual coercion, set clear boundaries and expectations before having sex. Talk openly about what you both like and dislike. Communicate clearly when you say no or yes. If your partner pushes for more than you want, leave immediately. Tell a friend or family member so they know how to help you. Get counseling or therapy together. To avoid neglect, spend time with your partner daily, talk regularly, show interest in each other's lives, and give compliments. Make sure both partners get their needs met by discussing them openly. Avoid making assumptions, being passive aggressive, or ignoring the other person. Seek help from friends, family, or professionals if needed.
Consequences of sexual coercion and neglect include: distrust, isolation, fear, guilt, depression, anxiety, PTSD, low self-esteem, addiction, violence, abuse, loss of intimacy, divorce, and even death. It is vital to recognize and address these problems early on to save the relationship. Remember that all partners are entitled to consent, communication, and respect. Sexual coercion and neglect can be signs of underlying issues such as trauma, mental health struggles, substance use, or abusive past relationships. Seek professional help for these issues. With support, patience, and effort, couples can work through these challenges and improve their partnership.
What are the consequences of sexual coercion or neglect in partnerships?
Sexual coercion can have devastating effects on both individuals involved in a relationship, leading to feelings of fear, shame, guilt, and low self-esteem. It can also cause physical harm such as sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and unwanted pregnancy.