Relationship Dissatisfaction
In psychological research, relationship dissatisfaction is defined as a state where a person experiences negative emotions related to their partner and/or relationship, such as disappointment, frustration, discontent, or resentment. These feelings may be caused by various factors, including communication difficulties, lack of trust, different levels of commitment, financial issues, unmet needs or expectations, differing values or lifestyles, etc. Studies have shown that relationship dissatisfaction can lead individuals to engage in extramarital affairs more frequently than those who are satisfied in their relationships. This suggests a strong association between relationship satisfaction and infidelity.
Infidelity refers to any behavior that violates an existing monogamous commitment to one's partner, such as emotional or physical intimacy with another person outside of the primary relationship. Infidelity can take many forms, including sexual encounters, emotional attachment, flirting, sexting, online dating, etc. The decision to engage in infidelity may be motivated by various reasons, such as boredom, low self-esteem, insecurity, personal growth, revenge, validation, stress reduction, or even simple curiosity.
Dissatisfaction with one's current relationship appears to be a significant predictor of infidelity.
One study conducted by author found that couples who reported higher levels of conflict and less satisfaction in their relationship were more likely to cheat on each other. Similarly, a meta-analysis of over 40 studies revealed that marital dissatisfaction was positively associated with both emotional and sexual infidelity, while marital quality was negatively correlated with sexual infidelity. Another study showed that individuals who perceived their partners as emotionally unavailable or unsupportive were more likely to engage in casual sex outside of their primary relationship. These findings suggest that when people experience dissatisfaction in their relationship, they seek fulfillment elsewhere, often leading them into infidelity.
Not all individuals who experience relationship dissatisfaction become unfaithful. Other factors, such as individual traits, beliefs, social norms, and situational context, also influence the likelihood of infidelity.
Personality traits like impulsivity and neuroticism have been linked to increased risk for extramarital affairs.
Cultural norms regarding monogamy can impact an individual's willingness to cheat. In some societies, infidelity is seen as acceptable or even desirable, while others may view it as immoral or shameful.
Circumstances like financial instability, family pressures, or external stressors can push individuals towards infidelity.
Relationship dissatisfaction appears to be a significant predictor of infidelity.
Several individual and societal factors influence this association, making it difficult to generalize. Therefore, understanding these complex relationships requires further research and nuanced analysis.
How does relationship dissatisfaction predict likelihood of infidelity?
Relationship dissatisfaction is likely to increase the chances of infidelity because it can lead to feelings of unhappiness, frustration, loneliness, and isolation. When individuals experience these negative emotions, they may seek out alternative ways to fulfill their needs for connection, intimacy, and attention outside of their primary relationships. This can include pursuing romantic or sexual partnerships with others, which can ultimately result in infidelity.