The current study investigated how long-term separations during military deployment affect attachment style and emotional security in romantic relationships. To this end, 24 married or cohabiting couples were enrolled for the research, where one partner was deployed for an average of six months to nine months while the other remained behind. Both partners completed self-report questionnaires assessing their attachment styles and relationship satisfaction prior to deployment, midway through deployment, upon reunion, and three months after reunion. The results revealed that both men and women experienced changes in their attachment styles, which differed between individuals and across genders. Specifically, women reported greater feelings of anxiety about their partners' infidelity and less secure attachment than before deployment, whereas men felt more secure in their relationships than before. These findings suggest that prolonged periods of separation can lead to increased distress and insecurity within the relationship.
The participants reported feeling less satisfied with their relationships after deployment compared to before, particularly regarding sexual intimacy and communication. This finding is consistent with previous studies showing that long-distance relationships are characterized by reduced frequency of sexual intercourse and communication due to physical distance.
Despite these challenges, most couples successfully navigated the separation period and maintained their relationships. Interestingly, some couples even reported experiencing closer connections as a result of the deployment experience.
Long-term separations during deployments have significant effects on attachment styles and emotional security in romantic relationships. While some couples may face difficulties, others may emerge from the experience stronger than ever. Future research should explore factors contributing to successful adaptation and resilience in military families facing deployment stressors.
How do long-term separations during deployments reshape attachment styles and emotional security in couples?
Separation from one's partner for an extended period of time can have lasting effects on the ways that individuals form relationships and perceive security in their partnerships. In fact, some research suggests that military deployments often lead to changes in attachment styles and emotional security within romantic relationships. During separation, individuals may feel anxious and insecure about their partner's loyalty and commitment to the relationship, leading them to seek reassurance through communication and physical closeness.