There is growing awareness that individuals who identify as both religious and LGBTQ may face unique challenges when trying to navigate their identities and experiences. This phenomenon has been coined "dual belonging," which refers to being part of multiple social groups simultaneously. As such, it can be difficult for these individuals to reconcile their conflicting identities and find acceptance within either community.
Research suggests that there are also potential benefits of dual belonging, such as increased self-acceptance and resilience. The present study aimed to examine the long-term identity outcomes of dual belonging for this population. Specifically, it examined how participants' identities have evolved over time, what factors contributed to their development, and what strategies they used to manage tensions between their identities. Participants were recruited from online support groups and focus groups, and data was collected through open-ended interviews. Participants were predominantly male (n 12) and ranged in age from 25 to 60 years old. Data analysis involved thematic analysis, and identified three main themes: conflict, resilience, and growth.
Results suggest that while navigating dual belonging can be challenging, it can also lead to positive personal growth and resilience.
Conflict: Participants reported experiencing significant conflict between their religious and LGBTQ identities, particularly related to sexuality and gender roles. They described feeling rejected by one or both communities due to their conflicting identities, and feeling alienated from family members who did not understand their experiences. They also reported experiencing internalized homophobia, which led to feelings of shame and isolation.
Many participants also recognized that these conflicts could lead to greater understanding and self-awareness, and ultimately helped them develop a stronger sense of self.
Resilience: Despite facing considerable obstacles, participants reported using various strategies to navigate their dual belonging, including seeking support from friends and family members, engaging in activism, and exploring new spiritual practices. Many participants reported feeling empowered by their unique identity and embracing the challenge of reconciling their conflicting identities. Some even found ways to integrate their identities in creative and meaningful ways, such as creating artwork or writing poetry.
Participants expressed gratitude for the opportunity to explore multiple aspects of themselves and find acceptance within each community.
Growth:
Several participants reported that their experiences with dual belonging had led to personal growth and increased awareness of others' experiences.
Some used their experiences to advocate for more inclusive policies within their religious communities, and others felt inspired to pursue careers in social justice work. Others simply gained a deeper appreciation for the complexity of identity and the importance of compassion towards others.
Results suggest that while navigating dual belonging can be challenging, it can also lead to positive personal growth and resilience.
What are the long-term identity outcomes of dual belonging to religious and LGBTQ communities?
The long-term identity outcomes of being both part of a religious community as well as identifying with the LGBTQ community can be complex and vary from individual to individual. Some individuals may experience difficulties reconciling their faith with their sexual orientation or gender identity, leading to feelings of conflict and dissonance within themselves. Others may find ways to balance these different parts of their identity by forming support networks within both communities, finding acceptance and validation from those who share similar experiences.